Recently I spent some time with two girls on separate occasions and they completely blew my mind. What I mean by that is, not too long ago I saw them as being not as attractive in the way they present themselves at school in how they dress and how they present their outer appearance. But when it really counts, when a girl needs to clean up…. well, they clean up really well.

      A girl can go from being the ugly duckling to a swan easily and instantly. But if you don’t believe me, then you see it for yourself, you’ll surely be mindfucked when it happens.

Why I love “The Tonight Show” with Jay Leno.

Woman in the audience: “What’s a good pickup line to use on a guy?”

Jay Leno: “Uhh…….. Hi! I’m a woman”.

Everyone’s got their own sense of style or rather a sense of style that they are attracted to in the opposite sex. This is what helps catch our eyes and what makes or breaks that attraction.

When you look back at the people you liked, remember their combinations of clothing and not their faces. Yes it is true that it was their face that caught your attention at first but it’s their style that kept your eyes glued.

Their style is a reminder of who you want and of who you had.

You were born the opposite gender?

If things didn’t turn out the way they are now and you were born the opposite gender, how would your life change? What in your life would change? and What would stay the same?

I suddenly thought about this the other day and pictured it; if I was born a girl instead of a guy there would be many things for me that would change.

My life style would include many new additions as well as subtractions from my current life style.

Adding onto skin care would be make up and learning the techniques on how to use it properly; I already spend enough time on caring for my skin but adding makeup to it? Sounds like i’ll be stuck in the washroom for awhile.

I wouldn’t be allowed to stay out as late as I do now without worrying my parents (or more importantly my dad).

I’d have to deal with the “time of the month” and possible mood swings that come with it.

The shopping part I could deal with since I go shopping more often as a guy now and I don’t really see it as much of a hassle like I used to but rather it’s more like an adventure. There’s always different styles of clothing residing in each store and each store has their own combinations of colors, patterns and styles that makes the store unique. With so many combinations, there’s limitless possibilities to what your outfit will look like and actually spending the time to discover helps bring out your own style which I really enjoyed finding.

But there’s also the issue of dealing with the various guys that try to pick me up at the club and then my perspective of clubs will definitely change, from being a lot of fun (as a guy right now) to being not so fun (when being bothered by a lot of guys as a girl).

I could go on forever on what would change in my life though I don’t believe it all to be full of bad changes.

This world is like a balancing scale, where there’s one thing in our life that’s bad there’s another good thing that balances it out. So aside from the things that I will loathe if I was born as a girl, there would have to be better things that come along to make up for it. It’s just I can’t really see the full extent of it unless I was a girl, but no matter how much curiosity I have on this subject I will not be changing into a girl anytime soon.

But it’s still an interesting thought,

What if you were born the opposite gender?

How would your life Change?

What would Change?

What would stay the same?