I’ve always heard from people; my friends, colleagues etc. that with women it’s the little things that count the most.
Not the big presents nor the once in a life time moments, but then again those do possess their own value as they are “once in a lifetime moments”. However leading up to those moments are always made up of the little things. Things that happen every day that we may deem insignificant ourselves but when really they mean a lot to someone else.
Wouldn’t you agree?
They like it when we remember the brief bits of information that would have been seen as insignificant by everyone else. But what about with guys?
I think everyone enjoys it because this shows that they actually listened intently.
Like when this girl brought up something that I said in a text weeks ago; it was about my hair. Hearing her bring it back up in the words I used really put a smile on my face because it was something that I thought of as being a small detail yet she still remembered it as if it was the most important thing in the world.
But maybe it wasn’t cause she wanted to pay attention but instead her feminine side was at work. I think it’s safe to say that women are better at remembering things than guys cause when we make a mistake, they remember it for a very long time….
Now unlike how us guys need to be told to pay attention to the details, a guy doesn’t tell a women to pay attention, not because he doesn’t care but because women already do this naturally. We don’t need to tell them to do what they’ve been doing all their lives.
So I’m not going to kid around, it feels great to know that someone remembers the tiny things you said at the end of the day or rather after a few weeks.
It feels even better though to know that the listening and remembering details about each other is not one sided.
Two is better than one.