I remember sitting in the cafeteria several months back with some friends and we people watched during our lunch break. While sitting in the busy area of the University, it’s almost a challenge not to notice the hundreds of people flying back and forth through the building even if you are having an engaging conversation; however in our conversation two of my friends wound up bringing up the idea that there aren’t too many attractive girls in our university.    

     I thought this was weird as I looked at them both and said “Are you serious? I see a lot of attractive women around”.    

They both then looked around and said “Where? I don’t see any”.

     And it made me think that perhaps either they’re not really looking at the women or their standards are too high. When I look around me and everywhere else, I’m just surprised at how many women there are and how many of them actually are quite attractive. Now, I’m not saying that my standards are extremely low, it’s just I don’t have a mold that the girl HAS to fit into. Sure there are qualities that I look for but as for her appearance and yes I do have a few choices and combinations that are attractive to me but I don’t limit myself to just one specific race or a specific appearance. I leave myself open to what comes my way while having some general guidelines to follow.    

      It’s great to have your preferences though, don’t get me wrong, you are entitled to going for what you want and perhaps its true that they actually didn’t see any girls that met their preferences. However, there is a fine line between what you do like and what you NEED to have in a person.